Self-Love: My Way Setting goals and meeting them makes me feel like a Boss. Think of a time you set a goal to work out 4 days a week, and at the end of the week you saw your charts and you actually stuck to the plan. How did that make you feel? Or the time you set a goal to get a certification to advance your career and you read every day until you eventually passed. Even before you passed, that daily victory of putting in the work gets you cranked up. Eating healthy; meeting milestones at work, etc …